5 Ultimate Tips for First Time Sex
Originally written 22nd October 2020 for Tickle.Life
Conquer those ‘first-time sex’ fears and enjoy every sexy second in the bedroom with my top-tips for first-timers…
The prospect of a first-time sex experience can be extremely daunting, and you may find yourself wondering: am I ready? How will it feel? Is it the time right? Although it is natural to feel a mixture of emotions, including nerves, sexual exploration should always be fun and exciting so read on to see if you are really ready!
1. Be honest with yourself
Whether you’re looking to lose your virginity or widen your sexual repertoire, the first thing you must identify is the motivating factor behind your decision. Consent is absolutely key and the decision to have sex for the first time or engage in any bedroom-antics is solely yours. If you’re thinking of having sex to please anybody but yourself, there is a strong likelihood that you’ll be left feeling resentful and even regretful.
Of course, it’s natural to want to satisfy the ones you care about and the best relationships feature a healthy dose of giving and take; however, engaging in an activity you’re not comfortable with, just to please your partner, is unhealthy and unfair. So, be honest with yourself and pinpoint the reason you want to say yes —…
